Friday, January 24, 2025

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Katrina quit her job to become a 50’s style housewife

Published 14 April 2024
– By Editorial Staff
The couple believes that no decade was perfect - but that the '50s was a safer and more sophisticated time.

Katrina and Lars Holte live a slightly different life in Hillsboro, Oregon. Three years into their marriage, Katrina decided to quit her stressful job and turn back the clock – today she lives like a 1950s housewife.

I feel like I’m living how I always wanted to. It’s my dream life and my husband shares my vision, Katrina Holte told the New York Post.

The couple’s home is like stepping into a bygone era, where everything from the furniture to the clothes to the housekeeping has a 1950s feel. Katrina spends her days washing, cleaning, sewing and cooking, but her main job is taking care of her husband.

It is a lot of work. I do tons of dishes, laundry and ironing, but I love it and it’s helping to take care of my husband and that makes me really happy.

But Katrina, who also sews clothes part-time and sells them online, obviously asked her husband before quitting her full-time job.

I spoke to my husband and told him I want to be a housewife and he said that was fine with him, Katrina says. It was a fantastic feeling when I quit.

Washing, dusting and sweeping

A typical day for Katrina begins at 6:30 a.m. She lays out Lars’ clothes for the day, makes him breakfast and packs his lunch. After eating herself, she does 15 minutes of light exercise.

We have the idea today that we have to push our bodies to the limit, but in the 1950s, the attitude was simply that you had to take care of it.

After her workout, she showers and applies makeup with products that were common in the 1950s, such as Revlon and Pond’s, and then uses rollers to create the classic hairstyle. When she’s done getting ready for the day, it’s time for her chores.

I will then spend a good hour doing the laundry, dusting and sweeping. I make sure everything is kept in its place. After lunch, when my house is tidy and smelling fresh, I will go upstairs and sew either for myself, for my customers or to try out new patterns.

“Cheating” with TV

Around 4:00 p.m., Katrina usually starts preparing dinner. She wants everything to be ready when Lars comes home from work.

I usually cook recipes from the era like pot roasts or chicken pies and make sure there are vegetables. In the 1950s, housewives liked to make sure all the food groups were there.

When Lars comes home, he likes to hang up his jacket himself, but Katrina doesn’t mind.

I read in a 1950s book that if a man wants to hang his own coat up, you should not feel like it makes you a bad housewife.

Instead, she serves him a cold glass of water and a plate of snacks.

After dinner, we play board games like Scrabble, or watch our vintage shows like ‘I Love Lucy’ or ‘The Donna Reed Show’, Katrina says. Sometimes we read. I like reading 1950s cookbooks and vintage beauty and sewing magazines.

The couple does watch television, but say they hide it when not in use so as not to disrupt the ’50s style.

“A man needs to feel pampered”

Katrina says that Lars is definitely not a controlling man, but that they have an equal marriage. For example, Lars wouldn’t complain if she was late for dinner, but she also knows that it means a lot to him that she has the food ready on time.

A man needs his wife to make him feel spoiled every once in a while. He makes a lot more money than I do. He works very long hours and makes my dreams come true, so I try to make his come true, too.

Katrina says she believes women should support each other.

If a woman says she wants to be a homemaker, we should not say that’s not right, Katrina says. What’s right for me might not be right for someone else. We all have to do what’s right for ourselves.

Not perfect – but safer

No decade is perfect, definitely we had big social problems in the ’50s, but the people I talk to who lived through the era say it was a time when you could leave your door unlocked and you didn’t need to worry about people breaking in. People today have forgotten how to talk to people they don’t agree with and they have lost all their manners.

The couple is now looking forward to having children. Katrina would like to have four, but she realizes she may not have the time to manage the house properly.

I’m not sure I’ll be able to keep my house in perfect order but we would love to have a big family, Katrina says. I definitely plan to put my little girls in vintage dresses, petticoats and hats, but when they get older, they can make their own choices.

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Uncertainty about boundaries during sex common among young people

Published 21 January 2025
– By Editorial Staff

Young people are unsure of boundaries in relation to sex, according to a study conducted by Swedish and Norwegian researchers at the National Knowledge Center on Violence and Traumatic Stress in Oslo.

he study included twelve focus group interviews with a total of 63 young participants. In addition, individual interviews were conducted with 34 young people who had experienced violence, 19 young people who had sexually harmed others, and school staff.

One of the conclusions of the study is that many young people do not have a clear idea that they have the right to set boundaries during sexual intercourse, with one participant in the study, for example, expressing uncertainty as to whether it was normal for their breasts to turn blue after sexual intercourse.

Erika Gyllenswärd, business developer and expert on domestic violence at the Swedish Police Authority, welcomes the study and believes that part of the explanation for the problem is the influence of pornography.

– Many young people don’t know what a healthy relationship looks like and think they have to do or agree to certain things. Rough pornography becomes sex education and they think that’s how it should be done, she says to TT.

At the same time, the researchers emphasize the importance of society understanding the perspective and situation of young people.

Most important of all: We must listen to the young people themselves”, they write.

Sacred cactus under threat of “psychedelic renaissance”

Published 19 January 2025
– By Editorial Staff

The peyote cactus has been considered a sacred medicinal plant by local cultures in North America since ancient times. However, the plant is now said to be under threat of overexploitation mainly due to its growing popularity and a renaissance in the West for psychedelic drugs, where the peyote cactus has gone far beyond its traditional contexts.

Peyote (Lophophora williamsii) is a succulent plant in the cactus family. The blue-green cactus grows naturally in the southwestern United States and down to central Mexico. It contains several alkaloids, including the hallucinogenic substance mescaline. The plant is slow-growing and can take up to thirty years to flower, but if allowed to thrive it can live for over a hundred years. In Sweden, the plant is legal to grow, but not to cultivate or extract mescaline from. Due to its psychoactive properties, the plant is completely banned from possession in the United States.

At the same time, for over 2 000 years, peyote has been used in religious and ceremonial contexts and for its medicinal properties, as has the closely related San Pedro cactus (Trichocereus pachanoi), originally named by the Inca as Wachuma but later named after St. Per, San Pedro, in adaptation to the Spanish Christianization of the region.

Peyote cactus has been used ceremonially and medicinally mainly by indigenous tribes in North America, including the Huichol, an indigenous people in Mexico. In 1994, an exemption was created in the United States in the form of the American Indian Religious Freedom Act, which made it legal to use, possess and even transport peyote for traditional religious purposes.

For example, the Native American Church (NAC) is a syncretic religious movement in the United States which, in accordance with this legislation, combines traditional indigenous beliefs with elements of Christianity. It is particularly strongly associated with the Peyote, and has sometimes even been referred to as “Peyotism”. Around 400,000 people are estimated to be affiliated with NAC in some form today.

According to the NAC, there is a story of an Apache woman who fell behind her group during a forced removal by the US government under the Indian Removal Act in the 1830s. The woman was dehydrated, malnourished and near death, but just as she was about to give up, she heard the peyote speak to her and, according to the story, she survived and then took the plant to the Apache medicine men and elders, who began to meditate and pray with it.

– It gave us hope and helped us process our thoughts, emotions and life purpose, Adrian Primeaux, who is from the Yankton Sioux and Apache tribe, explains to AP News.

Described as sacrament

Frank Dayish, former vice president of the Navajo Nation and chairman of the Council of the Peyote Way of Life Coalition, compares peyote to communion as a sacrament in Christianity.

– Peyote is my religion, he says. Everything in my life has been based on prayers through that sacrament.

In both NAC and Huichol’s culture, the plant is considered a bridge between the human and spiritual worlds. In the NAC, peyote is typically consumed during sacred night ceremonies in a hogan, a traditional Navajo building, or a teepee. The ritual usually begins around eight o’clock in the evening and includes prayer, singing and sacramental consumption of peyote. The effect of mescaline lasts for ten to twelve hours and is said to induce spiritual or philosophical insights as well as visual experiences. The ritual ends in the morning with a communion breakfast.

Since 1846, the official Mexican pharmacopoeia has also recommended the use of peyote extract in microdoses as a tonic for the heart. The plant is also used medicinally to relieve fever, healing of wounds, bone fractures and rheumatism. At the same time, according to WebMD, there is currently limited scientific documentation on the medicinal properties of the plant.

Overexploitation

Over the past two decades, there have been concerns about the lack of availability of peyote, pointing out that illegal and excessive harvesting threatens the species and has destroyed significant parts of its sensitive habitat. Members of the Native American Church say the situation has worsened as new groups use it in health rituals.

In Mexico, the peyote is said to have been overexploited to the point that it is now classified as critically endangered and there is now a heated debate about whether the peyote should be cultivated outside its natural habitat. Scientists argue that cultivation is necessary to protect the species, while the NAC believes it would weaken the plant’s sacred position, with many members of the NAC considering the plant’s habitat to be of great importance. Hershel Clark, Secretary of the Teesto Chapter of the Azee Bee Nahagha of Diné Nation in Arizona, believes that the ceremonial protocols they follow were given by the grace of the Creator and have been preserved in their storytelling.

– That’s why we don’t support greenhouses, growing it outside its natural habitat or synthesizing it to make pills, he says.

At the same time, many also advocate for the decriminalization of the cactus among other things to facilitate its cultivation. Particularly in Western countries, psychedelic substances, also known as entheogens, such as psilocybin, have gained strong recognition with a surge in research into the treatment of mental disorders such as depression. In Australia, for example, MDMA and psilocybin were approved for medical use last year. In Brazil, research has also been conducted on the traditional drink ayahuasca, based on Amazonian plants, and its effects on depression. Indigenous people in the Amazon region of Brazil, Peru, Colombia and Ecuador have used the drink for therapeutic and spiritual purposes since ancient times.

Iyah May shakes up the music world with her fearless social commentary

Published 17 January 2025
– By Editorial Staff
Iyah May's background as a doctor, especially during the coronavirus crisis, has influenced her music.

Australian singer and doctor, Iyah May, has stirred the pot with her provocative song Karmageddon, which addresses the political divide in society, corporate greed and public apathy. The song’s socially critical lyrics led to her manager leaving her after she refused to make changes.

Iyah May, born Marguerite Clark in 1990 in Cairns, Queensland, Australia, initially pursued a career in medicine and trained as a doctor. Music entered the picture while she was a medical student in New York, where a meeting with rapper Shaggy led to her performing with him. This inspired her to focus on music instead of a medical career, as reported by ProtectNFM.

At the same time, as the coronavirus crisis was in full bloom, May went back to work full-time as an emergency room doctor, putting her music on hold for a while.

“Man-made virus”

In 2024, she released the song Karmageddon, which criticizes social issues such as political corruption, abortion, the Israel-Palestine conflict, corporate greed, media manipulation and cancel culture. It places a strong emphasis on the influence of big pharmaceutical companies and their role in shaping public health narratives, with the text mentioning, among other things, “man made viruses” in reference to the companies.

Man made virus watch the millions die. Biggest profit of their lives. Here’s inflation that’s your prize. This is Karmageddon. Turn on the news and eat their lies”, reads part of the chorus.

May says that her background as a doctor, and in particular her experiences working on the frontline during the coronavirus crisis, have greatly influenced her song lyrics. She highlights issues she witnessed first-hand as a doctor, such as inequalities in healthcare and social exploitation.

Fuelled by my own despair over a divided world and deceitful corporations, I channelled my frustration into Karmageddon. My career as a doctor has been greatly impacted, and I was affected on a deep and personal level”, May says of the song on her website.

Despite the dark tone of Karmageddon, May describes the song as “a message of hope and unity” where art can be a way to inspire and even heal. Karmageddon is a call to confront social divisions and to unite. At the time of writing, the song has received 1.5 million views on YouTube since its release in December.

Manager wanted to change the song

Karmageddon has received a lot of attention, with both appreciation for the song’s straightforward content and backlash. May’s manager wanted her to change the lyrics because of its “controversial” content but May chose to stand up for her song instead, leading her manager to terminate her contract, reports Where is the Buzz.

I wish this story wasn’t true but it is”, May wrote in a post on social media. “My manager didn’t agree with the lyrics in my song and refused to work with me and support me until I changed the lyrics. So I said, ‘bye’”.

While artists often believe that it is difficult to succeed without the support of a management team, May has found that she has received more attention since. Fans have rallied around the artist, sharing the song widely and celebrating its unapologetic honesty.

I’m not the only one feeling this way”, May wrote in another post.

May continues to forge her own path as a fully independent artist and has hinted that there is an upcoming EP on the way in 2025, but not given much detail around it. However, it seems that for the time being, she has put her medical career on the back burner and is now planning to make a full commitment to music again.

Half the world’s languages soon to be forgotten

Published 12 January 2025
– By Editorial Staff
The Igbo language is one of those at risk of extinction in 2025.

UNESCO estimates that about half of the Earth’s approximately 7,000 languages will be forgotten by the end of this century. Thousands of languages are at risk as global languages often replace the smaller ones.

Around a decade ago, about one language disappeared every three months, but by 2019, this increased to one language every 40 days. This means that nine languages are lost each year.

Languages go extinct when they simply stop being used, usually because English and other official languages take over, leaving the smaller languages behind.

– It pains my heart every day to see that a language is dying off, because it’s not just about the language, it’s also about the people, Tochi Precious, a Nigerian living in Abuja and helping activists working for endangered languages through the organization Wikitongues, told The Guardian:

– It’s also about the history associated with it and the culture. When it dies, everything linked to it dies off too.

English is considered more important

Ongota, a language belonging to the Afro-Asiatic family, has long been considered “dying” and is spoken in a village on the western bank of the Weito River in south-western Ethiopia. As it is not taught in schools or to children, it is in danger of dying out in the near future.

Igbo, a West African language, is also at risk and is predicted to be extinct by 2025. It is one of Nigeria’s largest languages and is written in the Latin alphabet. In 1999, around 18 million people spoke the language, but the number has declined since then. Precious is actively working to save Igbo together with other activists. Among other things, they are compiling an extensive register of words and making films using the language to preserve it.

There is hope

Although the language is relatively widespread, many parents believe that only English, Nigeria’s official language, will be useful for children in the future. According to Precious, it has long been the norm in the country that those who do not speak English are excluded from society. However, she believes that efforts to save the language have paid off.

– I have realised that, yes, a language can be endangered but then the people who speak the language can also fight for its survival. Because 2025 is already here, and definitely Igbo is not going extinct, she says.